How To Create Unforgettable Experiences

How To Create Unforgettable Experiences

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There’s an old saying, happiness is a choice. Indeed, it is! Life gets so busy that we often forget to pause and think about how a simple gesture or interaction can move someone completely. We can intentionally be decision-makers seizing moments in ordinary places to deliver unforgettable experiences for customers, colleagues, friends, etc.

My guest, Ryan Estis, helps company leaders and individual contributors embrace change and achieve breakthrough performance. Most importantly, he teaches how to deliver unforgettable experiences. Ryan’s true stories will touch the core of your heart as he beautifully portrays a Starbuck barista, Lily, who “pours happiness” every day. Please watch the video of Ryan’s I’ll never forget that cup of coffee. During my interview with Ryan, we go behind the scenes of his story and discuss the simple secret to life-changing happiness.

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 More About This Episode

We explore:

  • How Ryan Estis purposely makes an impact by prioritizing happiness and bringing out human potentials.
  • How to choose to show up and deliver unforgettable experiences
  • How we can be remembered by the people we work with today and as leaders (you don’t have “leader” in your job title to be one.)
  • Lastly, how to move past the fear of failure and become change makers.

Significant discoveries:

  • You can deliver unforgettable experiences when choosing to show up as the best version of yourself. Customers, colleagues, friends,  family members will see and feel your authenticity.
  • We can impact someone from ordinary roles in our everyday lives.
  • Meaningful human interaction with full attention is the key to being happy and making someone else happy too.
  • Our thoughtful choices have consequences that shape the world at large.
  • By increasing the level of self-consciousness, we will find ways to better contribute to our family, community, workplace, and society.
  • Personal leadership vision is to find how we can be remembered by people.
  • With failure comes feedback as a gift. Impactful changes happen as result.

Motivating quotes from this episode:

“What’s your secret to making these connections over serving coffee?

She corrected me, I’m not serving coffee, I’m pouring happiness into people’s lives.”

“When you decide to show up as the best version of who you are, it gives you an opportunity to meet people where they are.”

“You never know when someone needs you to be your best.”

“Decide how you show up because every choice has consequences that can change the world.”

“When you elevate self-awareness and level of consciousness to understand that impact, you get an opportunity to better contribute to your family, community, workplace, society, and the world in a significant way.”

“Whether you’re a boss or a leader to a young college graduate or someone who’s 50 years old, you have so much power to inspire them every day. Use your power to support others.”

“Leadership isn’t a job. It’s a responsibility and involves humility, sacrifice, service, love, and empathy. It’s about helping other people become the best version of who they are.”

“If you’re waiting for data to drive your decisions, you’re discounting the speed of the marketplace and your ability to connect with humans in authentic and meaningful ways. We aren’t computers.”

“We have to realize that failure is part of the journey. Feedback is a gift.”

 

Key Points about Delivering Unforgettable Experiences

[00:00:33] A bit about Ryan Estis and how he works to inspire people to become the best version of them

[00:03:24] The story of Barista Lily and how she pours happiness

[00:10:21] The importance of being intentional with the choices in life

[00:12:03] How to influence people from every aspect of life

[00:12:34] How leaders can really make an impact through actions, not just words

[00:13:32] Ryan’s true north leadership questions

[00:15:54] Is data the only driver of decision-making

[00:19:32] How we can overcome fear of failure

 

About Ryan Estis ~ Creating Unforgettable Experiences

Ryan Estis is a person who has the beautiful ability to tell stories and deliver unforgettable experiences. He is a motivating business leader, keynote speaker, writer, researcher, and management consultant. Ryan helps companies and individual contributors to embrace change and breakthroughs with their performances.

His energy-packed and powerful motivations, practical insights, and relevant stories change many minds. Ryan’s a passionate wake surfer, who worked with AT&T, Motorola, MasterCard, Adobe, MassMutual, the National Basketball Association, the Mayo Clinic, Honeywell, Thomson Reuters, Ernst & Young, Lowes, and Prudential. Ryan is an inspiring guy, who touches people’s hearts wherever he speaks and inspires others to do the same in and out of the workplace.

Website: https://ryanestis.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryanestis

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ryanestis/?hl=en

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RyanEstisSpeaker/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/ryanestis?lang=en

About Stacy Sherman: Founder of Doing CX Right℠‬

An award-winning certified marketing and customer experience (CX) corporate executive, speaker, author, and podcaster, known for Doing CX Right℠She created a Heart & Science℠ framework that accelerates customer loyalty, referrals, and revenue, fueled by engaged employees and customer service representatives. Stacy’s been in the trenches improving experiences as a brand differentiator for 20+ years, working at companies of all sizes and industries, like Liveops, Schindler elevator, Verizon, Martha Steward Craft, AT&T++.   Stacy is on a mission to help people DOING, not just TALKING about CX, so real human connections & happiness exist. Continue reading bio >here.

How Attention Pays™ for Productivity, Accountability & Profitability

How Attention Pays™ for Productivity, Accountability & Profitability

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We often forget how a simple action like paying attention can make our business stand out. When we pay intentional attention, we can offer far better customer and employee experiences. Although it sounds mundane, it is paying attention that drives productivity. Indeed, when we focus on what matters, we can be more effective and goal-oriented. And this mindset ultimately leads to increased profitability.

So, now you may be wondering what can you do differently each day to be more productive, accountable, and earn more profit? In this Doing CX Right℠‬  podcast episode, a bold and sassy woman leader and author Neen James and I discuss WHO deserves your attention, WHAT matters most, and HOW you pay attention. We also talk about ways to show more empathy to employees because they are the first step to promising a stellar customer experience.

 We explore:

  • Why Neen James is passionate about getting people to pay attention and find out different angles to be productive and accountable to customers, teams, and oneself.
  • We also get to hear her different experiences about listening attentively, focusing on what matters and what drives the customer experience, and making businesses profitable for us leaders.

Significant discoveries:

  • Attention management is more important than time management
  • How accountability partners work and how we can be accountable to ourselves
  • Why empathy matters in customer experience
  • Why focussing on listening not replying is crucial to leadership success
  • How we can make the customer experience better through adding clarifications
  • How mental health awareness and habitual systems work in customer experience

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Motivating quotes from this episode:

“Life’s not about time management. It’s about attention management, so you can’t manage time, but you can manage your attention.”

“I believe as leaders, we have to carve out time and space for people because empathy is a real thing. We need more of that in the workplace, but you can’t get more empathy without space and time to be able to slow down and feel. We need both.”

“To truly pay intentional attention, we have to listen with our eyes. Can’t be a great leader without doing so.”

“We need empathy because we can’t compare our situation to someone else’s. And, we can’t put out experience on someone others. We have to be in a place where we extend grace and kindness to everyone we meet. We never quite know what’s going on for another person.”

“We’re listening to respond rather than focussing on listening. We need to switch that to truly hear what someone’s saying.”

“Systems direct our attention. So, we need to create systems of attention because systems create freedom.”

Key talking points about paying attention

[00:01:28] About Neen James and her obsession with the whole idea of getting people to pay attention

[00:03:33] How to focus on what really matters

[00:05:05] Breakdown of three ways we pay attention and how it helps us

[00:09:19] How public accountability and personal accountability work

[00:15:09] How do you really make sure that you are very much engaging your attention in the right way and how you leverage your energy?

[00:17:00] Why we have to listen with our eyes and what that means for us as leaders

[00:18:13] Why we need empathy for both team-leading and enhancing customer experience, especially during / post-Covid-19 pandemic

[00:28:57] Actionable advice for CEOs, business owners as well as the younger generation about paying attention

About Neen James ~How Attention Pays

Neen James is a leadership expert and high-energy keynote speaker who prioritizes focusing on what matters most in people’s lives. This sassy woman leader, speaker, author, and executive strategist helps people deliver better experiences by one very key action, which is paying attention.

She’s an energetic and witty person who can easily grab the audience’s attention and facilitate them in applying practical strategies to get them to their goals. Undoubtedly, Neen is the perfect fit for consulting businesses and helps them deliver better customer experiences with her systems thinking, development and learning approaches.

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About Stacy Sherman: Founder of Doing CX Right℠‬

An award-winning certified marketing and customer experience (CX) corporate executive, speaker, author, and podcaster, known for Doing CX Right℠She created a Heart & Science℠ framework that accelerates customer loyalty, referrals, and revenue, fueled by engaged employees and customer service representatives. Stacy’s been in the trenches improving experiences as a brand differentiator for 20+ years, working at companies of all sizes and industries, like Liveops, Schindler elevator, Verizon, Martha Steward Craft, AT&T++.   Stacy is on a mission to help people DOING, not just TALKING about CX, so real human connections & happiness exist. Continue reading bio >here.

How To Hug Your Haters & Make Customers Love Your Brand

How To Hug Your Haters & Make Customers Love Your Brand

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explain why & how to hug your haters

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Episode Summary:

Do you “hug your haters and love your promoters?” Jay Baer, 6x author, and Hall of Fame speaker reminds business leaders that “customers are your partners.” Too many companies invest a lot of money to acquire new clients instead of focussing on making the current ones volunteer marketers.

During this episode, you will hear Jay Baer share his wisdom about customer experience and actionable tips that you can apply to bring positive changes to your business. He encourages you to stop whining about customers that give bad reviews, and instead, hug them for helping you become better at what you do.

Key Talking Points:

[01:45] Getting to know Jay Baer

[02:37] What makes Jay passionate about marketing and customer experience

[04:53] The synergy between politics and customer experience

[07:15] Jay’s book: Love your Haters

[08:55] How to hug our haters

[13:01] How to love your promoters

[20:22] Jay’s view on separating customer experience from marketing

[24:04] Tips on how to start hugging haters

[28:58] Key takeaway for business leaders

[29:58] Jay’s message to his younger self

Inspiring Quotes From The Episode:

“Your unhappy customers are your most important customers. But we almost invariably treat them as if they are our least important customers.”

“A customer you ignore is a customer you should be prepared to lose.”

“There is a material increase in advocacy if you answer a customer who has a problem, even if you can’t fix it.”

“Word of mouth is still the least appreciated concept in all of business, which is remarkable.”

“You literally cannot be great at customer experience, unless you are first great at employee experience.”

“When you don’t empower your employees, every little thing takes three layers of management to investigate and all of that is a cost to the organization.”

“Retaining your current customers, and turning them into volunteer marketers, is a much more important course of action than getting new customers. Retention and word of mouth are far better opportunities than new customer acquisition.”

About Jay Baer:

He is a seventh-generation entrepreneur, author of six bestselling books on marketing and customer experience. Jay is the founder of five multimillion-dollar companies. Presently, he is the founder of Convince and Convert, a global consulting firm that helps many of the world’s most iconic brands. Also, he is a professional speaking Hall of Fame and the word-of-mouth marketing Hall of Fame and host of a podcast called social prose, which is about enterprise social media marketing.

Website: https://www.jaybaer.com/

Check out Jay’s Books: https://www.jaybaer.com/

Aiming High – Mental Health & Business Impacts

Aiming High – Mental Health & Business Impacts

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Did you ever have an extreme experience that changed the course of your personal and professional life? My guest, Darren Prince, best-selling author of Aiming High has achieved much fame, monetary success, and deep lows from drug addictions. 

Highlights:
*What Aiming High means and lessons learned 

*How to overcome imposter syndrome 

*Leadership advice from iconic athletes (his clients)
*The three words that can change lives and improve experiences

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About My Guest ~ Darren Prince

Darren Prince, International Best Selling author of his memoir “Aiming High” is a prominent sports and celebrity agent and global advocate for addiction and recovery. Through his agency, Prince Marketing Group, he represents icons such as Magic Johnson, Hulk Hogan, Ric Flair, Jerry West, Oscar Delahoya, Roy Jones Jr, Chevy Chase, Denise Richards, Carmen Electra and many others as well as the late Smokin’ Joe Frazier, Muhammad Ali and Evel Knievel to name a few.

As a leading authority in this space, his insights have been featured in WSJ, NYT, USA Today, CNN, Fox and Friends, Chris Cuomo, Tucker Carlson and Dr. OZ. From selling his first business at 19 to building a multimillion-dollar sports and entertainment marketing agency, Darren has experience what life is like in the celebrity world. Unfortunately, he also saw the dark reality of addiction through his own personal struggle. With close to 13 years of sobriety, it’s now Darren’s mission to help others avoid and break free from addiction. He has his own God awakening on July 2, 2008 and believes any belief in a spiritual higher power that anyone can turn their bottom into a new beginning if they have the willingness.

Through his new cause, he has become a highly sought after speaker on addiction recovery and mental health. He specializes in helping high functioning addicts and at-risk executives to identity and avoid the pitfalls of addiction and working with teens of self esteem and self worth.

Prince started his own 501C3 Aiming High Foundation where 100% of the proceeds provide treatment for this suffering with substance abuse and mental health issues.

 

How To Create & Lead A Customer-Centric Workplace

How To Create & Lead A Customer-Centric Workplace

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Stacy Sherman interviews Ashok RamachandranCEO and President at Schindler Elevator Corporation-India , known for leading organizations to achieve profitable success while building and maintaining a customer-centric workplace.

 

 

During the episode, you’ll hear and learn:

  • How to get employees to deliver customer excellence even when no one is watching
  • Proven tactics and skills to achieve revenue growth while leading with a heart
  • Examples of brands doing experiences right  that you can do too
  • How different generations (Gen X, Gen Z, etc) and cultures can better work together
  • What he’d tell his younger self if he could go back in time 

About Ashok Ramachandran

Highly passionate, customer-centric, and result-driven top talent general management professional with varied experience from leading business in mature markets to fast-growing developing markets. His achievements include developing and coaching talents, creating and driving strategy, sales management, end to end successful P & L Management, and achieving results in varied markets and environments

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Twitter + Instagram  @ramachandran

 

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Transcript- Creating a & Leading a Customer-Centric Workplace

Stacy Sherman 00:04

Welcome to Doing CX Right a podcast where we discuss how to differentiate brands by doing customer experience right, and that’s fueled by happy, valued employees. I’m your host, Stacy Sherman, an author award-winning blogger and keynote speaker, passionate to help you humanize business to achieve real results.

On today’s episode, you’ll hear my guest, who is the president and CEO of Schindler, India, who Ibelieve is a great example of doing leadership right, not just checking boxes and saying what to do. He’s walking the talk and shares actionable tips to support your success no matter what country you reside or company you work for, let’s get on with the show.

Hello, Ash. I’m so happy to have you on my show today. Good morning. Good night to you and good morning to me.

Ashok Ramachandran 00:59

Yes, Good morning, Stacy. And wherever people are watching from. Good morning. Good afternoon. Good evening. I hope everyone is healthy and safe.

Stacy Sherman 01:06

Exactly. Yes, that’s most important. I’m really happy to be talking to you today because you are a true, inspiring leader, both in the corporate world.

And also as a human being, who’s on a mission to inspire people. And I want to get to that because it’s all about experiences, employee experiences, customer experiences, and also we’reall working with different generations, gen Z, gen X, millennials, and so how do we all work together? So let’s dive deep and start with who are you? Tell listeners who you are and a fun fact.

Ashok Ramachandran 01:45

Sure. So, you know, I know when people asked me to introduce myself, I always say that my name is Ashok Ramachandran,, and I am here to create an army of leaders. And by the way, I happen to be the head of the Schindler operation in India, which for me is more of what I do more than why I do what I do.

So what I do is being running a company, but why do I do it to create an army of leaders? So that’s in a very brief nutshell, but just to give us a little bit more perspective, I was born and raised in India. And then I went to Australia to do my highest studies masters and then migrated to Australia.

So now I’m an Australian citizen expat rating in India with my family here. And, I’m, I’m enjoying running the organization here. A fun fact, a recent fun fact. I can call it that. About two months ago, I became a content sharing person. I don’t want to call myself content creator because I don’t have to create content.

I have a lot of content. I just need to share it with people. With the goal of helping, especially the 18 to 35 year olds who are impacted by pandemic severely. I was talking with one of my colleagues overseas in France. And she was in fact telling me that one of her neighbors daughtercommitted suicide in France because of COVID anxiety and stuff.

So I got a lot of people messaging me and asking me to share my wisdom, my experience, my knowledge to help them achieve success, become more stronger. So a recent fun fact is that I’m active on social media, sharing my experience and content to people to consume.

Stacy Sherman 03:42

So let’s break that apart for a second, cause that’s really powerful.

So one, you really know your, why. And so many people go through life, not really knowing why they do what they do. And so I love your sense of purpose and you’re a tremendous leader in a very important company. We happen to share that in common, the company, but it’s the fact thatyou, as a leader, are bringing your whole self to work.

Yeah. And that’s so important for leaders, anyone listening, and whether you have a leader in your title or not, you need to bring your whole self to work. So when you and I talked not long ago, you were on your way, or actually you had just finished going to some local offices. Talk about that because it’s a beautiful story about driving the employee culture.

Ashok Ramachandran 04:46

You know, I’m Stacy I’m sure you’ll agree that action in any organization doesn’t happen in a corner c-suite office. It doesn’t happen in that 46 floor overlooking Manhattan, you know, looking at the beautiful high-rises and maybe the water beyond that, I often believe that this is ivory tower that we can get stuck in.

So I’m a firm believer of being out there, talking to people. In fact, as the head of the company, I spend 70% of my time with people on people, topics, or along with people, because I firmly believe that, you know, when you drive people engagement or employee experience automatically you get customer experience, financial freedom, all kinds of results that you are trying to drive as an organization has achieved.

So of course, because the pandemic, I’m not able to do it too often, these days physically, but I happen to between some breaks of the COVID waves, I call it, when the wave took a break, I just need to do the break of the COVID wave and visit the nearest office, I could go and spend time with the team.

And usually we are used to doing business reviews. That’s what leaders do right? When you go to a branch. But this time my local regional head and myself decided to do something different. And what we did was we started the morning meeting 15 of his newly recruited talents who had just joined Schindler in the last three to six months.

And I got a chance to spend time with them, understanding their aspirations and goals and how can Schindler help them achieve their objectives. And after my team had arranged a workshop on the future of service business of elevators in India. And it was again, a group of experienced and young talents who were split into three teams and they had to present futuristic abilities of the service business. So it was again spent on talent discussions, innovation discussions. So I really enjoy it. And that’s all I did, you know, the whole day was spent on meeting them and then having lunch with the team. So my goal was to inspire them, to make them excited so that they can run the rest of the year chasing targets and numbers without feeling stress.

Stacy Sherman 07:11

Do you believe that culture starts at the top?

Ashok Ramachandran 07:14

All the time. There’s in fact, you know, a lot of people say, for example, Schindler is a great company. Or Schindler is a lousy company, whatever use objectives they use, what is Schindler? Schindler is not a person, right? It is not even a building.

In fact, if you think about it, it’s a paper registration, right? Schindler is a registered company under the companies act in various countries. So Schindler in US would be registered in the U S companies act or whatever is a local regulations as you call it. I often tell people what is Schindler? When you come and say, Schindler is so difficult or Schindler is so good. I said, it’s us. We are Schindler. You know, it is not an entity that we don’t know it. If you say that Schindler is not listening to people, look at yourself, are you listening to people? So that’s where anything has to be driven, whether it is employee culture or any culture, right. Customer culture. It’s always like that.

Right. What the boss wants. Everybody wants to do that.

So it’s that it is about the people. And that’s any listener anywhere you work. Big company or small company, it starts with. And that’s why I always say over and over again to everyone who will listen, you have a customer experience job, whether you realize it or not. And oftentimes people will say, no, I don’t. I’m the back office. I say, yes you do because what you do enables the frontline to be able to do what they do. Without you, they can’t. What are your thoughts?

You know, it reminds me Stacy of the good old story of NASA. I’m sure you know, this, you know, the guy who was sweeping the floors and NASA, when he was asked, what’s your job.

He said, I’m helping NASA to put a man on the moon.

Right. And, and that’s what it is. You know, if he can sweep the floors, clean people can come and have a good experience of working in Nasa. And then, it motivates them to get the technology required to put a man on the moon and that’s what the Americans did, like Neil Armstrong. So that’s what I’ve been.

I often talk about it, even in my intellect in India, for example, you know, we have people, we havehelpers, right? We have helpers at work who come and serve coffee and tea. You know, they arrange the rooms and which we don’t have the luxury in developed countries, so I often tell the person serving tea.

I said, you are as important as me. If you don’t serve tea and coffee to people on time, they’re not energized to continue working with full concentration so they can achieve the company’s objectives.

Stacy Sherman 10:03

I write and talk a lot about doing customer experience right, otherwise known as CX right. What does that mean to you? What best practices are you doing and leading others to do for customers? What does it mean to you?

Ashok Ramachandran 10:21

Doing CX Right starts with just listening to customers. If we can really and when I’m talking about listening, it’s not listening to reply, it’s listening to understand and you know, even yesterday, this happened. We were pitching to a new customer and this was a very big project coming up in Southern part of India. And my team started for the first 30 minutes, we were just going on and on and on about how good Schindler is. I would have liked the first half hour be thatwe started talking to them about the project, about questioning them, asking them to share. What are they looking for? What are their troubles? What are their past troubles? Then we go and pitch what we can do. Right? So we don’t do that enough. It’s about listening to understand what the customer needs. If you want to buy a digital screen, let’s say for example, you have a choice of iPhone, iPad, iMac. Now I can sell you an iMac because I will get a lot of money from you, but maybe you don’t need iMac.

Maybe you, all you need is an iPhone. So why do we not listen and understand what really the client wants? It starts from that. Right? And I think when you talk about doing CX right, 15 years ago, and now it’s completely changed, customer expectations are very, very different. So you need to understand what agenda we call as common core, but what I call as basics, you know, just do the basics, right? And a lot of people don’t even understand what is basic. We need to get that to understand, right? I mean, a customer calling you, for example, if you haven’t delivered a benchmark that you have said, they will call you to follow up. And a lot of times what we tend to do is to deflect the blame to them and blame it on something else rather than saying Yes, I’m doing it. And a lot of times it is as simple as communication, which we don’t like to do. Right. Bad news. So for example, you’ve called the plumber’s home. If he or she can’t make it at 10 o’clock, at least can they call you and tell you at 9 45 that they can’t make it, you know, maybe the car broke down, whatever.

I’ve heard these excuses people. Saying that, oh, you know, but I didn’t realize the petrol was going to be over. I didn’t realize my daughter had to be dropped in school. I’m like all that is fine, but just let me know, communicate with me. Talk to me, tell me what’s going on because I’m waiting for you. So for me, that’s the basic

Stacy Sherman 13:06

Yes.. And what I love doing is speaking to people in different roles and actually having them walk in the customer’s shoes and paint a picture and then say, how would you feel? How would you feel if your washing machine is broken and mechanic comes, walks right through your door, doesn’t say, hello, dressed inappropriately, drags mud on your floor. Does the job. Doesn’t tell you what was done, sends you a bill. How do you feel? It’s amazing when you put it in that context, people then get it, and like you said, and myself, you don’t need many degrees and academics to know that we must get the basics right.

Ashok Ramachandran 13:58

Is it the same in the US, like in India, you know, we have this corner shops. It’s now extinct getting extinct very quick, right? It’s not, I mean, there’s not a lot of them left anymore, but theseare, I think I’ve heard in Australia, for example, the good old bread and milk shops that used to be in your neighborhood, your neighborhood stores, the small stores, not the Walmarts and the, the big chain.

These guys, they know us so well. You know, they know your family, they know your brother, yoursister, where you’re studying. I mean, you know, I still, when I go back to Chennai where I grew up, the lady who used to sell flowers still is there, you know, she’s not become a grandmother. When I met her, when I was growing up, she was like a young girl.

Now she got married, she’s got a daughter who’s got married and she knows everything about us, right. That is customer service. And she’s not educated. She’s not even going to school.

Stacy Sherman 14:54

Yes. I love that example. So there are becoming less of those. They still exist, and we obviously need to support those local businesses at the same time like you said earlier, it’s about people. So even if it’s Starbucks, which is a corporate chain, but they are customer centric, you do walk in, especially locally they know before I walk in their door. I mean, the app is very intuitive. I walk in the door, they say, hello, if there’s a mistake, they don’t ask questions. They just do it over again. And the whole experience, which is why I pay extra than McDonalds. So the point to this, it’s a great topic because you can be a small local shop or you could be a big corporate brand. People are people, people buy from people they like and trust.

Ashok Ramachandran 15:54

Correct. Well, you mentioned about any best practices. I want to even not share as a best practice, but a very simple thing that I have implemented in my organization here. Every customer deserves a proactive communication at least once a month from us, not when there’s a problem when, when there’s no problem. And yesterday, in fact, one of my branch managers, Chad, shared a customer’s message. It was an angry customer a year ago. You know, he managed to fix the problems. But the funny thing is, after that every month he drops the customer a WhatsApp message. Just taking on the customer. Hey, Mr. Customer, is everything fine? Is there anything that is worrying you about the lifts that I need to be aware of?

So he was doing it every month. The customer is replying. Now two days ago here, again, messaged for this month for July. And the customer sent him leads for about 30, 40 elevators. You know, I mean, like that’s what I tell them, you know, just. Share even a small little message. Hey, Mr. Customer, I’m thinking of you. That’s all. And you saw that other day on LinkedIn. I posted about the salesperson, you know, the small, small things he used to do. Just drop a cake when it’s auntie Suzy’s birthday you know who’s a member of the building society. Small things go a long way. So that’s what I would call. I don’t even want to call it a best practice, but I want tocall it as basics that we can do really well.

Stacy Sherman 17:27

Yes. And I also call it humanizing business. It’s not hard. It doesn’t cost any money to say, thank you. It’s seconds to say thank you. It’s seconds to say. I haven’t forgotten about you. And I believe somebody today listening to this will actually do it and because it’s a low level of effort, as I like to say in customer experience metrics and such.

So, two more questions going back to gen Z, gen X, all these different generations. How do we work together because we are used to email, they don’t read email. They’re about texting and Snapchat and everything. So, what’s your views on how do we all work together because we canlearn from them and they can learn from us.

Ashok Ramachandran 18:22

I think the most important thing, Stacy is not to have any ego, any bias on, I know more than you and you know, more than me those days, you know, whenever you talk to these experienced people, they will start off with, or during my time and, and things like that.

Right? So this can be very irritating for the younger generation. And one of the things I’ve learned, Stacy is no one. Everybody is behaving. The way they are. That’s it. And what I mean by that, you know, the experiences that you have had, the upbringing that you have had, the life thatyou have experienced is molding your personality, you know, Indra, Nooyi the previous CEO of Pepsi worldwide, who lives in. I’m sure you must’ve heard of Nooyi. She speaks about this. That everyone is a victim of our upbringing, which means that. So let’s say that somebody feels that Stacy is, is a very angry person. Now it’s not like you wake up in the morning and decide that I’m going to be angry, right?

No one desides to be the way they are. It’s their life experiences. So if we have to survive and thrive, not only survive, I think we need to appreciate and look at people from a space of non-judgment from a space of acceptance. And then I think this will all close easily.

Stacy Sherman 20:00

I also love talking about diversity, inclusion, equity. I also going back to what you said about communication. We need to communicate the way others want to be communicated to. So we have to be mindful when we’re talking to older, younger generations. If we want to make a difference, we have to go and meet them where they want to be met.

So the last question today, cause I could go for hours with you. I love talking to you. If you could go back in time to your younger self, let’s say 20 years old. What would you tell you that you know now?

Ashok Ramachandran  20:42

I would tell myself to get a lot of life experiences, number one, and not try to box myself to do just one thing. And not to be impatient to try and get ahead in life.

I think this generation during at least my time, we were so much about getting a job and moving on today’s generation. I’m so envious. Right? They’re trying different things. They’re dabbling ondifferent things. They’re studying, they’re working, they’re doing a startup stuff. They’re on social media.

That’s the first thing. Right? Try different experiences. Never be shy of that. When you’re doing that, it’s about acquiring more skills, varieties of skills. I would tell my younger self to travel a lot and know the world break barriers of culture and everything else. Right. I mean, we need to be more worldly, I would say than I think the world’s becoming more and more parochial, which is a bit scary.

Right. There’s a lot of nationalistic spirit happening in every country in the world. Now everybodywants to kind of, you know, they say like, be in thereby Indian or be American by American. I think we need to be a bit more accepting of everyone. So that could be one another thing that I would like to tell myself, travel more, accept people, everyone, and try to, I think, try to live happyand not worry about tomorrow all the time.

Stacy Sherman 22:11

That’s beautiful. I would add one more thing, which is to pay attention, but don’t let the naysayers get in the way. The people that tell, you no. Be mindful. Cause there’s a lot out there. There’s more people that tell you no than celebrate your successes. And I’ve seen that over my lifetime. So I think that’s important for listeners because when there’s a will, there’s a way and being fearless yet sensitive to where you live and the political environment is smart.

Well, thank you so much for being with me today. And I know that our listeners are going to get so much value. Where can they find you after this session that they hear?

So they can find me on LinkedIn as , or they can find me on Instagram and Twitter as Ash Ramachandran. And I have a YouTube channel as well.

And, I will add the links in the show notes. So it’s easy. We’ll make it a low level of effort for people to find you. Have a wonderful day.

Ashok Ramachandran 23:26

Thank you so much for inviting me to this session. I hope the viewers are going to enjoy listening to us, and if they have any questions, they can connect with us and ask any followup questions.

Stacy Sherman 23:36

Thank you so much for joining today. I hope you will apply the lessons shared and also requesting if you would leave a review on apple. Head over to Doing CX Right to learn more waysto connect with me and improve your CX until next time. I’m Stacy Sherman, Doing CX Right.